The most Important thing for humans

In my post of December 29th, 2009 (The End of Another Year), I wrote that humans have lost the most important things that they should be treasuring rather than the things they think they should.

Well here's my answer, humans nowadays have lost themselves....

Absurd!!!! is one of the few reactions that I can hear being said by most people. Well it is the nature of humans to think that they have what they want to have as well as the things that seem natural to themselves.

However, in these days of ours it is true. Haven't you heard these words somewhere before? "You have changed... You are different than whom you were... You are somewhat strange... I feel like I don't know you anymore." These questions when directed to any humans will cause them to ask "how so, why, is it" and many more. When explained that it is better then it might not be so bad, however, what if it is for the worse. How then will someone feel.

I too was given such questions and dilemmas before, but at that time I was still a an ignorant child not knowing the true meaning of those words, however, looking back at it now, I wish I could, but at the same time I am also happy that I could not. It is because I have those as my past that I am able to understand those that wish to change as well as those wishing to retrieve themselves.

Well then, on to the main point of this topic, someone losses themselves when they find that what they do doesn't give them great returns for the effort, let it be in a physical or emotional form. It just doesn't.

Why? This is because you do those things when you were yourself, but once you lose yourself, it feel awkward, like walking using another people's shoes and wearing other people's clothings.

Therefore, in order to prevent this it is best to first know who yourself is first. There are many ways to do this which includes from meditating to playing games that we love. Meditation is a the concentration of one's mind into their inner subconscious, by doing this, one is able to understand who they are better. Although this is usually revealed at the end of the effort which is when one achieves the state of enlightenment. But, seeing as the world is moving at a fast pace, the people nowadays also wishes for the same thing, speed. Therefore, another method is to have fun (and by fun is true fun, not the fun generated from sexual experience or drugs, those are artificial fun). The definition of fun is quite abstract, it ranges from games to sports to anything. The reason as to why fun allows one to find themselves is that pleasure you feel from it makes you conscious of what makes you you, and this will allow one to know themselves better. Of course there are other ways such as, personality quizzes, trivias and many more. But it doesn't matter the method, as long as you knows who you are deeply.

Next, after knowing who are, don't throw it. This is no joke, many people throw themselves away like its nothing, saying its for the greater good or something, then in the end regretting what they did and have already forgotten who they are. However, this does not imply to those that know they have a bad self and wishes to change for the better. Eg:
1. A stingy one to become a giving one.
2. A cruel person to become a kind person.
Many more.

I know that what I am saying is contradicting with itself but that is how this world is, and that is how my blog is going to be as well.

Well then, that is all I have to say this time, have a happy new year and lets make the year 2010 a fruitful one for all mankind and the world.